292. It’s Not About You! How to Stop Taking Things So Personally (and Start Feeling Free)

 June 03, 2025


 

Today’s episode is one we ALL need—because if you've ever spiraled from one offhand comment or found yourself taking someone’s frustration as a personal attack… you’re not alone. This week, Dr. Edie and Emmy dive into how to stop taking things so personally—without shutting down, numbing out, or building walls.

We’re sharing real-life stories (yes, including a little wake-surf drama 😅), practical tools, and mindset shifts to help you respond with curiosity instead of defensiveness. Whether it’s a stranger online or someone you deeply love, this episode is all about reclaiming your peace, regulating your emotions, and choosing connection over conflict.

This one’s part heart talk, part surf recap, and all things JOY.

🔑 What You’ll Learn:

  • Why people’s words and actions are rarely about you—and what to do when they feel like they are

  • The powerful pause: how to stop reacting and start responding with intention

  • How your “tender moments” are sacred invitations to reconnect to your true self

  • Why choosing curiosity over offense can radically shift your relationships

  • Practical tools to emotionally regulate (even mid-boat ride!)


Episode Resources: 

👉 Join us for the RISE Workshop – it kicks off THIS WEEK!
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